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Welcome! I'm Kim. I have lots of creative and entertaining ideas I can't wait to share with you, but my personal story will have to be shared a little at a time. In addition to blogging about upscale entertaining on a budget, I want to share my experience living with major depressive disorder. Entertaining and creating beautiful things while fighting hopelessness and despair should make for some interesting reading, don't you think?
Showing posts with label elegant. Show all posts
Showing posts with label elegant. Show all posts

Saturday, June 27, 2015

DIY TUTORIAL - Tea Party Hat - Wedding - Derby - Pretty Hat! PART ONE

 

Hello, Upscale Party Readers! 

 
 

This is the first of many craft tutorials. My instructions assume that you are new to crafting. Of course, if you are crafty or artistic, you can adjust these instructions as desired. But if you are not yet crafty, you can make this lovely hat by following these steps.
 

Step 1: Find a hat blank.

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You can find a plain hat like the one I used here in a craft store or a thrift store.  Sometimes department stores will have very inexpensive hats that may have a band or decoration that can easily be removed without damaging the hat. This hat came with a small braid around the crown. I only needed to snip a few threads and I have a perfectly fine hat blank.

 
 

Step 2: Gather your supplies.

You will need  a yard and a half of ribbon, 16 to 20 small silk roses, one large silk rose,  a hot glue gun, glue sticks, some paper covered wire or thin ribbon, wire cutters and scissors.  All of these can be purchased at  any craft store.
 

Notes for First Time Crafters:

  • RIBBON. When you shop for ribbon, you will find many different kinds at a craft or fabric store. The ribbon that I used on this hat is "flora-satin" ribbon, the kind a florist would use in a fresh flower arrangement. Floral ribbon is less expensive than fabric ribbon, which is usually softer and often made of a satin, silk, organza or velvet like material. Some ribbon will be wired to hold its shape, but in a bow this size, the floral ribbon seems to hold its shape very well. Choose whatever ribbon you like.
 
  • ROSES.  New crafters are sometimes confused when they buy silk flowers because they come on stems. Each stem will usually have 3 or more flowers. In order to use the flowers in a craft project like this hat, you will need to cut the flowers off the stem. The stems are made of plastic covered wire. In order to cut the flower off, you will use your wire cutters. Don't throw away the green leaves that are also on the stem. You will want to use some small leaf groups peeking out from beneath some of the flowers.
 
 

Step 3: Come back next week!

The next step in making your beautiful hat is to assemble the large bow for the back of the hat. Assembling the bow is the most difficult step and will probably take a full post to explain. (Experienced Crafters: Remember, I am writing this for readers that have NO experience!) Next time, I will explain - step by step- how to make this lovely bow.
 
 
 
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Thursday, May 21, 2015

My Upscale Wedding

 

Isn't this a beautiful place for a wedding? It could easily be mistaken as the setting for a Royal Wedding!

Actually, this is a photo of the Princeton University Chapel taken at my wedding in 1984. That's me in the middle kneeling in front of the priest during the ceremony, alongside my future ex-husband, but let's not spoil the memory.

My wedding nicely illustrates the concept of an Upscale Party (or Wedding, in this case) as opposed to an Expensive one. I had a beautiful wedding, fit for a princess, on a teeny tiny budget!

Elegant and sophisticated entertaining takes creative thinking. Although the university chapel doesn't have the historical significance of Westminster Abbey, it is certainly a beautiful venue, and it can accommodate 2,000 of you dearest friends!

Obviously, I could not afford to have 2,000 guests at my wedding! I don't think that I even know 2,000 people! Wouldn't it just be silly to have a wedding with only 50 guests in such a gigantic place?  Well, no. Like the cathedrals of Europe, the university chapel has an "elevated choir."

Below is a photo from Will and Kate's wedding at Westminster Abbey. See the choir sitting on each side? If you look at the picture of my wedding above, you can see that my guests are seated in the choir. The overall effect was a cozy intimate ceremony in a fabulous upscale setting.


So, aside from bragging about my beautiful wedding, what am I trying to say here? YOU can have the wedding (or other event) of your dreams by thinking creatively UPSCALE!

Tuesday, May 19, 2015

About Upscale Party by Kim



Somewhere between the lavish pageantry of a Royal Wedding and the modest celebrations of the "middle class" is an entertaining style called Upscale Party.

Just because you were not born a princess, haven't had the luck to marry a handsome prince, or haven't yet made your first million, doesn't mean that don't love and appreciate high quality things, beautiful places, and elegant events.

Of course, money helps when you have upscale taste, but not everyone with money, or even royal blood, recognizes elegance and high quality when they see it.

I love to entertain lavishly, but can't afford to shop where royalty and the very rich shop. And the big party supply stores don't generally appeal to my upscale taste. So, over years of entertaining, I have learned to use my creative and artistic talents to craft celebrations that are remarkably beautiful, elegant and fun!

My plan for this blog is to share my thoughts and provide practical advice on creating an Upscale event, regardless of your budget!

Although I am excited about this opportunity to exchange ideas, I am still working full time, so for now I can commit to posting at least once a week. I am also looking forward to hearing your ideas, comments and suggestions.